{"id":3268,"date":"2026-09-16T21:44:12","date_gmt":"2026-09-17T01:44:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/recognizing-violence\/"},"modified":"2026-10-24T00:37:51","modified_gmt":"2026-10-24T04:37:51","slug":"recognizing-violence","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/en\/recognizing-violence\/","title":{"rendered":"Recognizing violence"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"3268\" class=\"elementor elementor-3268 elementor-615\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a5537d1 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"a5537d1\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-454f4e1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"454f4e1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9f0b5dd e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"9f0b5dd\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ada156f e-con-full animated-slow e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"ada156f\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d4be86a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d4be86a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Recognizing violence<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9234366 e-con-full animated-slow e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"9234366\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;,&quot;animation_delay&quot;:200,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-de91ed6 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"de91ed6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9f5eafc elementor-align-center elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"9f5eafc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fas-info-circle\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M256 8C119.043 8 8 119.083 8 256c0 136.997 111.043 248 248 248s248-111.003 248-248C504 119.083 392.957 8 256 8zm0 110c23.196 0 42 18.804 42 42s-18.804 42-42 42-42-18.804-42-42 18.804-42 42-42zm56 254c0 6.627-5.373 12-12 12h-88c-6.627 0-12-5.373-12-12v-24c0-6.627 5.373-12 12-12h12v-64h-12c-6.627 0-12-5.373-12-12v-24c0-6.627 5.373-12 12-12h64c6.627 0 12 5.373 12 12v100h12c6.627 0 12 5.373 12 12v24z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">You can leave this site at any time with the Leave now button. To erase your visit from your browser, see How do I clear my traces?<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c365fc2 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c365fc2\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4214260 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"4214260\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6d9acf0 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"6d9acf0\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-42b7dcc animated-slow crop-3-2 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"42b7dcc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1500\" height=\"843\" src=\"https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reconnaitre-la-violence-photo-1.webp\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3280\" alt=\"Recognizing Violence Photo\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reconnaitre-la-violence-photo-1.webp 1500w, https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reconnaitre-la-violence-photo-1-300x169.webp 300w, https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reconnaitre-la-violence-photo-1-1024x575.webp 1024w, https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reconnaitre-la-violence-photo-1-768x432.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1500px) 100vw, 1500px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-72607b5 elementor-absolute elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"72607b5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_position&quot;:&quot;absolute&quot;,&quot;motion_fx_motion_fx_scrolling&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;motion_fx_translateY_effect&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;,&quot;motion_fx_translateY_speed&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;px&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:2,&quot;sizes&quot;:[]},&quot;motion_fx_translateY_affectedRange&quot;:{&quot;unit&quot;:&quot;%&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;start&quot;:0,&quot;end&quot;:100}},&quot;motion_fx_devices&quot;:[&quot;widescreen&quot;,&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;laptop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;,&quot;mobile&quot;]}\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"680\" height=\"448\" src=\"https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/vector-3.svg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3284\" alt=\"Vector\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3a318a4 e-con-full animated-slow e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"3a318a4\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInUp&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-96c3d6d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"96c3d6d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Are you questioning what you're living through?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-528ad87 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"528ad87\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5eceb35 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5eceb35\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It isn&#8217;t always easy to recognize violence when you&#8217;re in the middle of it.<br><br>Maybe some things make you uncomfortable. Maybe you adjust what you say or do to avoid a reaction. Maybe you feel less and less free to be yourself. Or maybe you simply know something is wrong, without being able to put it into words.   <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d3c64fa e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"d3c64fa\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c1e4f04 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c1e4f04\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tYou don&#8217;t need to have all the answers to start asking questions.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7f2c157 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"7f2c157\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9850954 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9850954\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tIntimate partner or family violence can take many forms. It isn&#8217;t always physical, and it isn&#8217;t always easy to recognize. It can set in gradually, until certain behaviours start to seem normal.  \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c19dd56 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"c19dd56\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c0727cd e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"c0727cd\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b0e12c3 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"b0e12c3\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d6571d7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d6571d7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">It can look like\u2026<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c80f3f0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c80f3f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<strong>You don&#8217;t need to<\/strong> see yourself in this whole list to have the right to ask questions or to ask for help.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c0d50ab elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"c0d50ab\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"501\" height=\"174\" src=\"https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/vector-4.svg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3288\" alt=\"Vector\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a45661e e-con-full animated-slow e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a45661e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInUp&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6a2333 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"e6a2333\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e2f6705 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e2f6705\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>checking your phone, your messages or your social media;<\/li><li>always wanting to know where you are or who you&#8217;re with;<\/li><li>trying to keep you away from your family, your loved ones or your community;<\/li><li>controlling your money or stopping you from making certain decisions;<\/li><li>putting you down, humiliating you or making you doubt yourself;<\/li><li>using jealousy to justify certain behaviours;<\/li><li>threatening you, intimidating you or making you afraid;<\/li><li>using the children to pressure you;<\/li><li>not respecting your limits or your decisions;<\/li><li>making you feel you always have to be careful about what you say or do.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-224a8f4 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"224a8f4\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d4920ef e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"d4920ef\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5ac25aa e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"5ac25aa\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-74dd22b animated-slow crop-3-2 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"74dd22b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1500\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reconnaitre-la-violence-photo-2.webp\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3272\" alt=\"Recognizing Violence Photo\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reconnaitre-la-violence-photo-2.webp 1500w, https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reconnaitre-la-violence-photo-2-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reconnaitre-la-violence-photo-2-1024x683.webp 1024w, https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reconnaitre-la-violence-photo-2-768x512.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1500px) 100vw, 1500px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3a0fbc0 elementor-absolute elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"3a0fbc0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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animated-slow e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"0bde783\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInUp&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fdd990b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fdd990b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What if I'm not sure?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5669e67 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"5669e67\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ef2237d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ef2237d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThat&#8217;s okay.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3ebdd23 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3ebdd23\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tYou can love someone and still be worried about some of their behaviour. You can have good times with them and also live through things that hurt you. You can think about leaving and change your mind. You may not want to leave at all.   \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2d85062 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"2d85062\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8e04574 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8e04574\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tWe don&#8217;t need you to make a decision in order to listen to you.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-58add8b e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"58add8b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b984190 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b984190\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tTalking about what you&#8217;re going through doesn&#8217;t commit you to anything. A support worker can simply take the time to listen, answer your questions and help you better understand your situation. \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9252ff8 e-con-full animated-slow e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"9252ff8\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInUp&quot;,&quot;animation_delay&quot;:100,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d6adb3e elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"d6adb3e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm\" href=\"https:\/\/pad8ban.com\/en\/contact\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Contact us<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-02857f9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"02857f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm\" href=\"tel:4503452045\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fas-phone-alt\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M497.39 361.8l-112-48a24 24 0 0 0-28 6.9l-49.6 60.6A370.66 370.66 0 0 1 130.6 204.11l60.6-49.6a23.94 23.94 0 0 0 6.9-28l-48-112A24.16 24.16 0 0 0 122.6.61l-104 24A24 24 0 0 0 0 48c0 256.5 207.9 464 464 464a24 24 0 0 0 23.4-18.6l24-104a24.29 24.29 0 0 0-14.01-27.6z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Call us<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-20f2d68 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"20f2d68\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-655a0a3 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"655a0a3\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0634e9c e-con-full animated-slow e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"0634e9c\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-89c5808 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"89c5808\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Violence doesn't always start with blows<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e1dfdec elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e1dfdec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Violence can be visible, but it can also be much harder to name. It can show up as control, words, money, fear, isolation, threats, or other ways of limiting your freedom. <br><br>What matters isn&#8217;t only what the other person does, but also the effect the relationship has on you.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a3c652b e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"a3c652b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f7a4b4a e-con-full animated-slow e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"f7a4b4a\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;,&quot;animation_delay&quot;:100,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-61c2b50 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"61c2b50\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Are you afraid of how they&#8217;ll react?<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ce89927 e-con-full animated-slow e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"ce89927\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;,&quot;animation_delay&quot;:100,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-72a8b50 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"72a8b50\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Do you feel free to say no?<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3a8d856 e-con-full animated-slow e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"3a8d856\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;,&quot;animation_delay&quot;:100,&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4688be1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4688be1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Can you see the people you want to see?<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-557c35e e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"557c35e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" 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